Welcome back to Wellness Wednesday everyone! This week I thought we’d talk a little bit about Emotional Wellness.
So exactly what is Emotional Wellness?
According to SAMHSA (the developers of the Wellness Wheel pictured above), Emotional wellness is “coping effectively with life and creating satisfying relationships.” The National Institutes of Health adds that it’s “the ability to successfully handle life’s stresses and adapt to change and difficult times.” The University Of California, Riverside defines it as “the ability to be aware of and accept our feelings, rather than deny them, have an optimistic approach to life, and enjoy life despite its occasional disappointments and frustrations.”
Emotional wellness isn’t just some level we obtain and then never have to worry about again. It’s a continuing process of checking in with ourselves, making sure we’re where we need to be, and if not, determining what needs to be done to get us there.
Here are some questions we can ask ourselves to help us determine how we’re doing with our Emotional Wellness:
- Am I able to maintain a balance between work, family, friends, and other obligations?
- Do I have close relationships with people who are a positive influence in my life?
- Do I have a stress reduction “toolkit” – things that help me deal with stress? (For some stress reduction suggestions, check out 10 Tips For Managing Stress.
- Am I able to accept responsibility for my actions?
- Am I able to set priorities?
- Is stress affecting my attitude, relationships, or health?
Checking in and asking these questions from time to time can help us know if we’re where we want to be with our Emotional Wellness.
Sometimes it just needs a little tweaking for us to be where we need to be.
Strategies for Improving Emotional Health
If that’s the case, the National Institutes Of Health has a great Emotional Wellness Toolkit. This includes 6 Strategies for improving Emotional Health:
Brighten your outlook.
Get quality sleep.
Cope with loss.
Strengthen social connections.
For each of these strategies, they provide printable checklists with suggestions for how we can improve in each area. If our Emotional Wellness just needs some small adjustments, this is an extremely helpful tool to help us get where we want to be.
There are other times, however, when we experience emotional distress. In these cases, we need to ask for help from certified professionals. It’s important that we know the difference between normal “bumps in the road” with our Emotional Wellness and when we need to ask for help.
One way of determining this is looking for signs of emotional distress.
Signs of Emotional Distress
Here are just some of the signs the Joint Services Support website lists as signs of emotional distress:
- Inability to eat, sleep, or concentrate
- Negative outlook or depression
- Hypersensitivity to perceived threats, unexplained suspicion or fear
- Irritability, inability to control anger
- Impulsive behavior
- Extreme mood swings
- Fearfulness, nervousness, or anxiety
- Feeling emotionally numb or detached
Please visit their website to see the complete list. If you or someone you love is experiencing any of these signs of emotional distress, please reach out for help. You never have to suffer alone.
We live in such a fast-paced world that it’s easy for our Emotional dimension of wellness to suffer. By checking in with ourselves from time to time and taking steps to make sure we’re doing well with this dimension, we can catch any problems early and hopefully, nip them in the bud.
Do you ever do an Emotional Wellness check-in with yourself? What do you find most helpful for keeping you emotionally well? Please share!